Originally Posted by
sugarcakes_babe
dugay2 napud mi galive.in, wa pajud mi makasal, 3yrs old nlng among anak wa pajud, next year napud kuno, hahay, im a girl d i by the way, im planning to break up with him, sakto kaha ni akong buhaton? as in dli jud niya priority ang kasal, kay pang karaan ra daw na, karon dili na kuno uso ang kasal importante, way gabinuang nya love ninyo ang usag.usa, nya unsaon paglove nga dli gani ko secure sa akong status, sa among status... hapit najud ko mugive.up, you know diba we girls are so sensitive and big deal kaayo nang wala paka makasal, esp. naa nay anak, nya gipuyo2 raka.... haaaay..... galibog nako unsa akong buhaton.... and gusto ko naa koy buhaton...
your advices are highly appreciated....
I know how it hurts to keep hoping for something. I have been in that situation before. The good thing about it is you know that there is higher possibility that marriage (what you want) is most unlikely.
If you can remain independent from the relationship u have with him, and you can live with it (meaning kaya ra nimu after giving it some time), then I suggest you do that. Hoping and wishing is okay but don't remain stagnant na lang when you can do something about it. Question, can you? Go for it! =)
Baby steps lang sa mam. Bulag and then enjoy being a single mother. All the best for you.