REVISED::Stop Making Stupid Threads

[kitoy]

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So just to clarify, bawal ang useless threads like asking advise? But then unsaon man pag socialize sa mga tao if ang option sa mga istoryans is to resurrect a dead thread because of fear na ma mute sila if mg himo sila ug ilang own thread?

Not to mention, the decision if it's nonsense or not is on that mod's judgement which might be different from other mods. Maypa mghimo mo ug "official" policy and with criteria unsa ang considered non-sense or not aron naay general rule.

It's also the love section so expected daghan mgpatambag. Wa may issue sa other section.

Sa ako rani view ha, no violent reaction needed sa mga ni disagree.

[Intruder26]

So just to clarify, bawal ang useless threads like asking advise? But then unsaon man pag socialize sa mga tao if ang option sa mga istoryans is to resurrect a dead thread because of fear na ma mute sila if mg himo sila ug ilang own thread?

Not to mention, the decision if it's nonsense or not is on that mod's judgement which might be different from other mods. Maypa mghimo mo ug "official" policy and with criteria unsa ang considered non-sense or not aron naay general rule.

It's also the love section so expected daghan mgpatambag. Wa may issue sa other section.

Sa ako rani view ha, no violent reaction needed sa mga ni disagree.

Agree! Better if usahon tanan Rules, nabiktima jud ko by responding to a thread which I considered not Stupid. Sakto jud ka Kitoy depende ra gyud sa judgement sa Mod. Daghan man kog maconsider nga stupid thread diri mas worst pa sa akong gi replyan pero wala man ma-mute. Akong g reply ako man sad tong kaugalingon kasinati-an ug dili tiaw. Waala sad ko nitubay para padaghan ug post 1 year na bya ko diri nga member pero pila ra gyud na akong post oh...kapilay bump ug kana ray tuyo. Worst I was given 6 points infraction maski first time pa ko nakasala. Unya ingnun man sad the kung dili kauyon GTFO, paet!

Just my 2 cents thought...

[fingolfin]

.. do you really need to ask why i did this ??

.. let me quote what mr. john_yo said so that you'll see it on a OLD member's perspective:

mao jud, imbis mag tanaw ta sa manga new posts kay ang mo tunga permi kay kaning manga walay klaro na thread.

klaro man kaau na dili tinood, ang ilaha lang kay ang maka create sila og new thread. i hope ma close or deleted na to ang manga walay klaro na thread oi. nag kaon2 lang to og space sa server.

.. and do you actually think that by sharing your love problems here it could solve anything ?? The only person who can solve your problem is YOU.

.. another example is this::

https://www.istorya.net/forums/love/5...g-gibuhat.html

.. is that so hard a problem that you need help from other people ??

.. and here's an already existing thread that is similar to that::

https://www.istorya.net/forums/love/4...nd-let-go.html

.. most or better yet ALL of the LOVE PROBLEMS have been covered in this Board, all you need to do is search for them.

[kitoy]

But sir mao mana ang forum. To discuss anything under the sun. Cebuanos talking about anything. If i-limit nimo ang post to relevant topics, for sure almost all topics sa love section maconsider jud ug irelevant. What's relevant for you might not be relevant to us. Samot nag walay criteria sa relevant ug dili relevant.

Love problems no matter how small or absurd will always be there. Nangita rana sila ug support because they are helpless or confused. For sure, once sa imong life nakasuway sab kag tambag sa imong mga higala pero kung ikaw na naay problema, d naka kabalo mo apply sa imogn gi tambag. I know I experienced it before.

If diri na padung ang istorya, then I'm sure walay mahimo ang mga users but to follow your new rule, but at least make it clear, not through example, but by terms and conditions style (pina bala-od with sections) lang unsa ang relevant or not, aron if ever maka decide mi ug himo ug thread diri, mao to amo himoon ug guidelines.

Looking at your example, and with a specific perspective, I would say relevant para nako ang ways on how to move on if I recently have a bad breakups. Moral support is what depressed people need the most.

But if you're married, never experienced any love trauma, you might say it's irrelevant, a waste of space.

This would be my last piece on the matter boss. Wa man sab koy right mo question sa inyong decision since this is your site but hopefully, it should be something na dili mo-change sa reason why the site is popular here in cebu, and that is interaction.

[fingolfin]

.. it's obvious you didn't read my statement above coz if you did, you won't say such things like, THIS IS A FORUM and all that.

.. let me quote myself:

.. most or better yet ALL of the LOVE PROBLEMS have been covered in this Board, all you need to do is search for them.

[kitoy]

.. it's obvious you didn't read my statement above coz if you did, you won't say such things like, THIS IS A FORUM and all that.

.. let me quote myself:

I did, but interaction man ang gipangita sa mga tao, not read a similar issue way back 6 months ago. Daghan man sab twist and turns and life issue sa mga tao so it's impossible to create a one guide and hope they feel comfort/moral support by just reading it.

Mas comforting man gud sir if ang advise kay para sa imoha or addressed to you.

Lain sab mo-ingon si papa joe sa iyang gitambagan na "Day, ang problema nimo pareha sa caller yesterday, ali dri station tagaan lang tika ug recording sa akong advise niya".

Last najud ni nako sir. More power istorya.net!

[Scott Bernard]

Sir fingolfin sakto jud ka.

Actually, sa ako lang pod side, kapoyan ko mag basa2x sa ubang threads diri sa relationship. Naay uban simple raman nga solution, epa complicated pa jud.

Basta, magsakit akong ulo mag basa2x sa ubang "love"2x threads diri...

[naxi85]

mao diay dghan ang na-mute...

[jofer]

Mas comforting man gud sir if ang advise kay para sa imoha or addressed to you.

Lain sab mo-ingon si papa joe sa iyang gitambagan na "Day, ang problema nimo pareha sa caller yesterday, ali dri station tagaan lang tika ug recording sa akong advise niya".

Last najud ni nako sir. More power istorya.net!

sakto sad ni iya gi ingon.
Stricken by love and everything that comes with it? | Love problems, advice, & stories man kaha.lain sad jud bitaw usahay mo search pa ka if naa naba siya na topic kay aron pamasahon na lang nimo ang mga advice.
although naa sad kapareha na problema or wa na jud ayu na thread pero naa sd uban na naa jud slight difference na makapa urge nimo ug create a thread and ask for advice.

[browniies]

panawag nlng mo ni papa joe or kinsa pana diha para ma.advisan mo ug para IMUHA ra gyud.
naa man gyud ky mga thread na mka.relate ka dha, just post it there.
the thoughts are the same ra man.
mag vary hinuon gyud ang inyong love story sa ilang love story..